It’s Mistress here again.
I wanted to share more insight into my relationship works with my slave.
I won’t lie to you it’s not easy living in a dominant and submissive relationship full time. We have times where this part of our relationship where we have to take a small break from our kinky side as we’re both busy with our careers, but we always come back to our kinky relationship as we both need it in our lives.
Our relationship has taken quite a while to build and get right, when you find that happy balance it all becomes much easier.
For example; I’ll prepare a list of tasks and a chore chart over the weekend which makes it easier for me to pick what I would like my slave to complete.
If my slave deserves a punishment I usually take some bits from our 100 Submissive Tasks and Punishment eBook (It’s really helpful).
What I’ve Learned As A Dominant
During our Dom/Sub relationship, I’ve learnt a few things:
- Communication is key to a successful Dom/Sub relationship.
- My slave is more pleasing and better behaved when locked in chastity.
- When I plan and let my slave know about tasks and play sessions, I need to follow through as it can affect my slave’s mood which leads to more bratty behaviour.
- You can’t be afraid of trying new fetishes and you got to accept not all kinks will work for the relationship.
- You’ve got to push your slave’s boundaries and make them feel uncomfortable at times.
- You have to nurture your slave into the relationship and try to grow their confidence.
Thanks For Reading
Well, that’s it from me for now. I hope you enjoyed this post and I’ll be back soon. Please feel free to leave any questions or comments below.
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