When I first discovered male chastity, I was curious. It’s something taboo, kinky, and something I wasn’t sure how to approach. More than six years later, it has become much more than I could have ever imagined. It has been an experience of trial and error, communication, discipline, frustration and a lot of learning. In…
Curious about financial domination and want to understand more about bill adoption? In this blog post, we’ll be discussing what adopting a bill involves, different types of bills, how it works and safety aspects. What Is Bill Adoption? Within financial domination, to ‘Adopt a Bill’ is where the submissive agrees to take responsibility for a…
After more than five years in a D/s dynamic with my Mistress, I’ve learned that setting rules is about more than control. Rules create structure, build trust and reinforce a kinky lifestyle. Why Create Submissive Rules? Rules can enhance any D/s dynamic. They help show clear authority between the roles, create structure and help reinforce…
Seen from the outside, financial domination can look exploitative and plain weird. Not weird in a kink way, but weird in that it doesn’t feel like it’s related to BDSM at all. But spend a few more minutes with Findoms and their paypigs, and you’ll start to see what’s really going on. You see, Findom,…
One of the best tactics that most people think they can use to have some fetish sexting fun is by using a site like OnlyFans. This is an adult platform that lets you talk to porn stars that you see all of the time and nothing could be better than that. You get to actually…
Humiliation is a common fetish which is very individual to each submissive – as what one submissive may consider humiliating another may not. As a submissive man, I enjoy humiliation and the psychological effects that come from it. Feeling vulnerable helps strengthen the connection I have with my Mistress. My Mistress will regularly set tasks…
One of the most challenging parts of BDSM is finding a partner – someone who you feel a connection with, are physically attracted to and someone who shares similar interests as you. How I Found My Dominant Partner Before I found my Mistress, I was already interested in BDSM and wanted to serve a dominant…
Feminisation which is often referred to as sissification is a common fetish for submissive men. It requires the male to take on a more feminine role which may include wearing makeup, cross-dressing or acting like a female. Growing up I was fascinated by makeup and always desired to apply it – sadly I never did….
When I began online dating to find a girlfriend, I never expected it would lead me on a kinky path to full submission and servitude – I’m so glad it did! After spending a significant amount of time looking for someone online, I eventually took the nerve-wracking plunge to arrange dates with a couple of…