Gay and bisexual men have never exactly been short of fetishes to explore. But what actually makes one man gravitate towards leather outfits while another gets more turned on by a rubber hood, a sweaty jockstrap or being treated like the pathetic sub that he is? Well, we’re going to look at what some popular…
Female-led relationships, often referred to as FLRs are becoming increasingly popular. Yet despite growing in popularity, FLRs are often misunderstood and many people hear the phrase and imagine something extreme and one-sided. A female-led relationship usually looks different from couple to couple, and they’re often created on the same foundations as any healthy relationship with…
When I first discovered male chastity, I was curious. It’s something taboo, kinky, and something I wasn’t sure how to approach. More than six years later, it has become much more than I could have ever imagined. It has been an experience of trial and error, communication, discipline, frustration and a lot of learning. In…
Curious about financial domination and want to understand more about bill adoption? In this blog post, we’ll be discussing what adopting a bill involves, different types of bills, how it works and safety aspects. What Is Bill Adoption? Within financial domination, to ‘Adopt a Bill’ is where the submissive agrees to take responsibility for a…
After more than five years in a D/s dynamic with my Mistress, I’ve learned that setting rules is about more than control. Rules create structure, build trust and reinforce a kinky lifestyle. Why Create Submissive Rules? Rules can enhance any D/s dynamic. They help show clear authority between the roles, create structure and help reinforce…
Seen from the outside, financial domination can look exploitative and plain weird. Not weird in a kink way, but weird in that it doesn’t feel like it’s related to BDSM at all. But spend a few more minutes with Findoms and their paypigs, and you’ll start to see what’s really going on. You see, Findom,…
One of the best tactics that most people think they can use to have some fetish sexting fun is by using a site like OnlyFans. This is an adult platform that lets you talk to porn stars that you see all of the time and nothing could be better than that. You get to actually…
Humiliation is a common fetish which is very individual to each submissive – as what one submissive may consider humiliating another may not. As a submissive man, I enjoy humiliation and the psychological effects that come from it. Feeling vulnerable helps strengthen the connection I have with my Mistress. My Mistress will regularly set tasks…
One of the most challenging parts of BDSM is finding a partner – someone who you feel a connection with, are physically attracted to and someone who shares similar interests as you. How I Found My Dominant Partner Before I found my Mistress, I was already interested in BDSM and wanted to serve a dominant…