October is for more than just Halloween celebrations – It’s also the month of Locktober which emerged from the kink community for people interested in BDSM and chastity. What Is Locktober? In essence, Locktober is a challenge of placing yourself or your partner in chastity and denying sexual gratification for the entire month. While many…
What Is The Point Of Financial Kink?
Seen from the outside, financial domination can look exploitative and plain weird. Not weird in a kink way, but weird in that it doesn’t feel like it’s related to BDSM at all. But spend a few more minutes with Findoms and their paypigs, and you’ll start to see what’s really going on. You see, Findom,…
The Debt Agreement
The time has come for our first-ever debt agreement. As a submissive that’s into financial domination, I’ve always fantasied about entering a long-term debt contact with my Mistress. While it’s an exciting idea for me, it’s also scary to commit to a debt without knowing the amounts involved. As part of a recent punishment my…
Funishment Or Punishment
Since our Dominant/Submissive relationship started a few years ago, we have learned more about kink and how our dynamic works. As I’m in a 24/7 female-led relationship, punishments aren’t uncommon. Over the course of time some punishments are becoming more of a funishment. What’s The Difference? Funishment is a word in the kink community that…
How A Content Subscription Site Is Not A Solution For BDSM Sex Chat Seekers
One of the best tactics that most people think they can use to have some fetish sexting fun is by using a site like OnlyFans. This is an adult platform that lets you talk to porn stars that you see all of the time and nothing could be better than that. You get to actually…
Slave Tasks In Public
It’s Mistress here again. I wanted to talk about how our Dom/Sub relationship works outside the house. Why restrict the kinky lifestyle to the bedroom? I have a lot of fun making my slave complete tasks in public. Top 5 Tasks When We’re In Public No Underwear When going out, I like to occasionally demand…
Financial Domination With My Slave
Hi all, it’s Mistress here. I wanted to write a blog post about financial domination and how it’s used within our Dominant/Submissive relationship. One day my slave said he was interested in financial domination and wanted to know if it could be used in our relationship. In the beginning, I was quite hesitant although thought…
Our Financial Domination Arrangement
At the beginning of 2020, I wrote a blog post about financial domination and thought it would be a good idea to share a few insights and an update on our current financial domination agreement 18 months on. Most people can’t understand why any submissive would want to be dominated financially and hand over their…
Humiliation For Submissive Men
Humiliation is a very common fetish. This fetish is individual to the submissive, as what one sub considers to be humiliating another may not find it humiliating at all. As a submissive man, I enjoy being humiliated and the feeling of losing respect for myself. My Mistress usually provides a few tasks which will make…