BDSM Punishment Ideas

As a submissive man, I have always felt punishment and discipline is a huge component to my submission. It constantly makes me better.

To me, certain punishment and discipline techniques need to scare me, humiliate me, keep me on my toes and ultimately mould me into the perfect submissive for my Mistress. The fear of not knowing what punishment will be next is exciting.

BDSM Punishment Ideas

Here are some of our punishment ideas, I haven’t experienced all of these yet.

• Write a piece of content about what I have done wrong: This is good to reflect on what has been done incorrectly and how I can do better.

• Line writing: This can quickly become mundane but keeps the incorrect behaviour firmly in my mind. This can be done with pen and paper, but there is also website Write for me!

• Parental controls: Giving full control of my computer to my Mistress, allowing her to block certain websites or programs, see exactly what I am doing and even restrict the amount of time I am allowed on the computer.

• Forced to try different products or food: As a creature of habit, I constantly use a lot of the same products and eat the same meals. Being ordered to try something different within a certain period of time. This puts me outside of my comfort zone and can prove to be a long term benefit.

• Research different products or solutions: Mainly designed for me to serve my Mistress, perhaps she is looking for new products to purchase and wants to find the best deal, reviews, pros and cons.

• Chauffeur: Drive my Mistress around wherever she would like and open the door for her. This may also include wearing a particular outfit.

• Clean parts of the house naked: This makes me feel exposed and on edge, especially when doors can’t be shut and curtains must be kept open.

• Masturbation control: Mistress may impose restrictions on when I can next masturbate.

• Edging: Bringing myself to the edge of orgasm and stopping before I cum.

• Sex slave: Only allowed to pleasure my Mistress, denied orgasm and locked back into chastity straight after.

• Extended chastity: Increasing the amount of time I am locked in a chastity.

• After next orgasm, eat the cum: Great way to clean up after orgasms.

• Hitting balls with a ruler: The pain is a good way of rectifying bad behaviour. My Mistress can decide the number of times I need to hit myself and if done remotely, I’ll be asked to supply video evidence by a certain time.

• Food and drink restrictions: Banning favourite foods and drinks can be a good punishment whilst also providing a health benefit.

• Specific bedtimes: Having set times set that I must be in bed by and awake by. Devices such as fitness trackers can help verify this via sleep tracking.

• Toilet control: This could be requiring permission to use the bathroom, always sitting down, being naked to use the toilet or having the door open.

• Taking humiliating photos: Having to take a certain number of pictures in different positions or locations and send to my Mistress.

• Human furniture: Act as a piece of human furniture while being naked for my Mistress, this could be a footstool, chair or table.

• Naked exercises at home: This can be humiliating if you have to perform exercises at home near a window or while other people are in the house.

• Naked corner time: Set for a certain duration and can including sucking a dildo, holding a coin against the wall with nose/fingers or in a certain position.

• Wearing toys for different activities: This may include wearing a gag or butt plug while having a bath, being restrained or wearing nipple clamps while being a passenger in a car.

• No underwear: For a certain duration not being allowed to wear any underwear.

• Shopping for Mistress: This could be anything like make-up, tampons or an obscure shopping list like cucumber and lube which must all be purchased in-store.

• Feminine makeover and photo shoot: Transforming myself into the perfect sissy by wearing make-up, clothing and complete a photo shoot, taking as many pictures as my Mistress requires.

• Paint nails: Being forced to paint my nails and wear for a certain duration.

• Wear make-up for certain tasks: Commonly used as an add-on to another punishment if my Mistress believes I need something more humiliating.

• Wear feminine clothing: Wearing anything such as ladies panties, bra, tights underneath clothing for a certain amount of time.

• Wash mouth out with soap: A simple but unpleasant punishment for bad behaviour.

• Cook and serve Mistress naked: Another humiliating task that can be done and can satisfy my dominant by cooking and serving her favourite meal.

• Giving my Mistress a massage: Help make my dominant feel good with a nice relaxing massage for a duration of her choosing.

• Amount of punishments by the role of a dice: Letting the number of punishments given be decided by rolling a dice – will it be one or six punishments!

Expand On These Ideas

These are a few of our current punishment ideas, of course, feel free to give these a go, most of these can be easily adapted and made easier or more challenging depending on your relationship. Whilst it’s good to push boundaries at times, please be sure to respect any hard-limits you and your partner have.

Providing Evidence To Mistress

Most of these punishments can be completed in-person or remotely. From experience, I’ve found being required to supply evidence for completed punishments in the form of photos or videos is necessary to ensure any tasks set are completed and to the correct standard.

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Feel free to leave a comment below and leave any more ideas you have, I would love to hear from you.