As I continue my journey to be the perfect submissive for my princess, the benefits of a female-led relationship are becoming clearer every single day.
Simply by knowing and accepting who’s dominant in the relationship causes fewer arguments. If something needs to be done, it’s not a question of her asking, she simply has to say what needs to be done and when by.
Alongside having fewer arguments, better communication is another benefit of a female-led relationship. My princess understands when something needs to be discussed and isn’t afraid to have a conversation that needs to be had.
I feel having strong communication is vital to any successful relationship, whether it’s a kinky one or a completely vanilla relationship.
Women are incredible about knowing exactly what’s going on.
I’m fortunate enough to have a princess which understands me immensely (maybe even better than I know myself) and without a doubt, she understands exactly when I need to be pushed and when not to.
I accept the fact women are better at multitasking than men. To me, I prefer to focus on one task at a time. However, my princess can multitask with ease.
Not Afraid To Ask
If my princess needs help for something, she’ll simply ask. Unlike so many men, their egos get in the way and women are more likely to ask for help and support when it’s required… This must make life so much simpler for everyone, surely?
Feeling More Secure
Having a strict but caring partner is perfect for a female-led relationship. I feel more secure knowing I can look up to my princess knowing she has my best interests at heart and continues to make me a better person.
I couldn’t forget the incredible sex that comes along with a female-led relationship. When I serve my princess I am completely more affectionate and this can lead to more fulfilment and mind-blowing orgasms.
Continuing The Lifestyle
Now I’ve become accustomed to the dynamic it would be difficult to live without a dominant woman being in charge.
Now I’ve become accustomed to the dynamic it would be difficult to live without a dominant woman being in charge. As the journey continues I’ll be sharing and documenting it all on the Submissive Blog website.
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18th December 2019 at 2:11 am
Am a little confused by feelings of need to be guided by a woman is that strange?
18th December 2019 at 8:27 pm
I wouldn’t worry about if it feels strange to you at the moment, most things are until you try them. When I first started serving my princess, it felt a little strange, nowadays it’s pretty normal for me!
16th May 2020 at 3:36 am
Why did you decide to enter a FLR relationship? Did you guys read about it and wanted to try it? Did she want it and you went along?
I ask because I believe that society would, literally, be better off if relations were FL. The established patriarchy is what led us to a divorce rate of 1 in 2.
Most women are nurturers. Most men are not. Nurturers need to lead relationships.
I ask because I’d like to live this way for the rest of my life, but my boyfriend is has bought the entire hyper-masculine role that society gave him. It is his MO, but he has a sensitive side that could allow it. What I would give! Amen to less arguing! Amen to better sex. Life just flows organically! What a sublime way to live!
So again I ask, what made you decide to let your relationship blossom though FLR?
24th May 2020 at 12:05 pm
Thanks for your comment.
I’ve always been interested in an FLR after discovering about BDSM and learning more about it online, during this time I discovered I had a lot of submissive tendencies. I introduced my partner into the world of BDSM, fortunately, she is naturally dominant so it works well!
Once we discussed the dominant/submissive dynamic we made a list of different fetishes and began to explore, we both found it fun and exciting and over time it’s continually evolved into a full FLR.
You could introduce your boyfriend into male chastity devices, it’s truly amazing how powerful one of these cages can be, it quickly made me feel more submissive and eager to please my partner. It allows us to have better sex, I appreciate my orgasms much more and feel closer with my partner. It took time getting used to chastity but as I got used to the cage with time, I found myself enjoying it more and more.