Benefits Of Female Led Relationships
As our Dominant/Submissive relationship continues to develop, the benefits of a female-led relationship are becoming clearer every day. Below are seven benefits I’ve noticed.
Less Arguments
Simply acknowledging and accepting who’s the dominant partner in the relationship has caused fewer arguments. If there’s something that needs to be completed, it’s not a question of her asking, Mistress simply says what needs to be done and when.
Better Communication
Alongside having fewer arguments, improved communication is another benefit of a female-led relationship. Mistress understands when something needs to be discussed and isn’t afraid to initiate the conversation when it’s appropriate. This open line of communication allows us to discuss anything from our feelings to new fetishes in a safe place.
Having strong and open communication is vital to any successful relationship – no matter whether you’re involved in kink or not.
Full Awareness
Women are incredible about knowing exactly what’s going on.
I’m fortunate enough to have a Mistress who understands me immensely (maybe even better than I know myself). This level of awareness helps Mistress know when to apply pressure and when to hold off – this is very powerful when training any submissive.
Multitasking
Mistress is much better at multitasking than I am, which enables her to plan, coordinate, and take on multiple roles that rely heavily on multitasking. This takes a lot of pressure off me and allows me to focus more effectively on individual tasks.
Not Afraid To Ask
When Mistress needs assistance, she’ll ask and I understand my obligation to serve. Unlike so many men, their egos can get in the way. Women are more likely to seek help and support when required. I’m sure this must be beneficial for every single relationship.
Feeling More Secure
Having a strict but caring partner is perfect for a female-led relationship. I feel more secure knowing I can look up to my Mistress knowing she has my best interests at heart and continues to make me a better person.
Better Sex
I couldn’t forget the incredible sex that comes along with a female-led relationship. When I’m regularly serving and obeying my Mistress I am more affectionate which leads to more fulfilment, pleasure and mind-blowing orgasms.
Continuing The Lifestyle
Now I’ve become accustomed to a female-led relationship it would be difficult to live without a dominant woman being in charge. Over time, Mistress will be taking even more control – I’ll be sharing and documenting it all on the Submissive Blog website.
Am a little confused by feelings of need to be guided by a woman is that strange?
I wouldn’t worry about if it feels strange to you at the moment, most things are until you try them. When I first started serving my princess, it felt a little strange, nowadays it’s pretty normal for me!
Dear Rich:
Why did you decide to enter a FLR relationship? Did you guys read about it and wanted to try it? Did she want it and you went along?
I ask because I believe that society would, literally, be better off if relations were FL. The established patriarchy is what led us to a divorce rate of 1 in 2.
Most women are nurturers. Most men are not. Nurturers need to lead relationships.
I ask because I’d like to live this way for the rest of my life, but my boyfriend is has bought the entire hyper-masculine role that society gave him. It is his MO, but he has a sensitive side that could allow it. What I would give! Amen to less arguing! Amen to better sex. Life just flows organically! What a sublime way to live!
So again I ask, what made you decide to let your relationship blossom though FLR?
Thanks for your comment.
I’ve always been interested in an FLR after discovering about BDSM and learning more about it online, during this time I discovered I had a lot of submissive tendencies. I introduced my partner into the world of BDSM, fortunately, she is naturally dominant so it works well!
Once we discussed the dominant/submissive dynamic we made a list of different fetishes and began to explore, we both found it fun and exciting and over time it’s continually evolved into a full FLR.
You could introduce your boyfriend into male chastity devices, it’s truly amazing how powerful one of these cages can be, it quickly made me feel more submissive and eager to please my partner. It allows us to have better sex, I appreciate my orgasms much more and feel closer with my partner. It took time getting used to chastity but as I got used to the cage with time, I found myself enjoying it more and more.