From Dating To Submission
When I began online dating to find a girlfriend, I never expected it would lead me on a kinky path to full submission and servitude – I’m so glad it did!
After spending a significant amount of time looking for someone online, I eventually took the nerve-wracking plunge to arrange dates with a couple of matches and things quickly escalated. I soon found myself in a vanilla relationship, or at least that is what I thought at the time.
Once a few months passed, I decided to have a conversation about BDSM with my girlfriend, as she had a dominant persona and liked being in control of situations it quickly became clear that a Dom/Sub relationship would be created.
After we had an in-depth conversation about a variety of fetishes and limits, I quickly began to serve my dominant girlfriend – it’s been a fun, enjoyable and rewarding experience so far.
How Our D/s Relationship Started
Our Dom/Sub relationship all started with random tasks, anything from naked corner time, and domestic servitude to completing chores naked. After a short amount of time, I even agreed to try a male chastity device and was enjoying every minute of it.
As we gained more experience, my dominant girlfriend (who I now refer to as my Mistress) has taken charge of many aspects of my life. There are rules and protocols in place which has allowed us to create the perfect Dom/Sub relationship we both desire.
These days our relationship would now be considered by most people as a TPE (Total Power Exchange) due to the amount of control my Mistress has.
Here are a few aspects which Mistress has control over:
Orgasm Control
Mistress will decide if and when I can have an orgasm which is usually based on my recent behaviour. My Mistress will usually keep me locked in chastity when she isn’t around – this helps prevent me from pleasuring myself. I’ll occasionally receive a teasing message from Mistress saying she has just had an amazing time with her vibrator, she’ll deliberately send these messages knowing I’m locked up and sacrificing my pleasure for her.
Diet & Weight Control
I’m allowed a specific number of healthy meals, drinks and snacks each day – for anything else I have to ask permission before consuming it. I also provide weekly weigh-ins. When I try to lose weight, my Mistress may punish me if my weight increases too much in one week.
Health & Fitness Regime
My Mistress can decide any health and fitness regimes which I must complete. I could be told to complete anything from exercise classes, and sets of push-ups to setting up full health regime challenges for a specified duration – this can be very motivational.
Specified Bedtimes & Device Restrictions
My Mistress will occasionally specify a bedtime and even add restrictions to my electronic devices which enables her to monitor usage and determine when devices must be shut down. If I need to be punished, I may also have my phone taken away or my social media accounts blocked.
Financial Domination
I’m also financially dominated by my Mistress. I must ask permission to make purchases. If I disobey commands, fail tasks or need to be punished I may receive financial penalties or consequences. I love the psychological effects of being financially dominated.
Our D/s Relationship Continues To Evolve
As you can tell I’m fortunate to have such an amazing dominant girlfriend in my life who is willing to take control of me and our relationship. It’s been beneficial for both of us, we are closer and more connected than ever.
