Feminisation
Feminisation which is often referred to as sissification is a common fetish for submissive men. It requires the male to take on a more feminine role which may include wearing makeup, cross-dressing or acting like a female.
Growing up I was fascinated by makeup and always desired to apply it – sadly I never did. It was only after I came across BDSM and started learning about different fetishes that I realised feminisation was one and instantly knew I would be interested in trying it.
As a submissive man, I enjoy forced feminisation. Mistress will regularly request I wear makeup, cross-dress or act feminine. Luckily, I have a safe place to explore my feminine side.
What’s Involved With Forced Feminisation
Within our BDSM relationship, Mistress may require me to wear women’s clothing, wash, apply make-up, act feminine or be called a girl. These activities take place when Mistress commands. Feminisation can be added to tasks and punishments to increase the complexity.
Purchasing Make-Up & Clothing
Most of the products used within forced feminisation are purchased during previous tasks and punishments, here are two examples:
In a previous task, my Mistress ordered me to purchase a selection of make-up (e.g. lipstick, nail polish, foundation) which felt very humiliating for a submissive man to buy in-store. Mistress requested to see an in-store receipt to validate the task. This make-up was added to our collection and is perfect for future tasks, punishments and sessions.
One of my previous punishments was to hand over my bank card for Mistress to go shopping with. This shopping trip allowed my Mistress to purchase feminine clothing for me and her – she decided to get a dress, pair of high heel shoes, skirt, bra and panties. During the shopping trip, my Mistress walked me around the store and decided what she wanted, I followed her around carrying the shopping, and when we got to the till she paid using my card.
Feminisation Tasks & Punishments
Mistress regularly incorporates feminisation into a variety of tasks and punishments, it can make a simple task more complicated. Here are a few examples:
- Wearing full make-up for the day
- Wearing a nightie or pyjamas to bed
- Corner time wearing a dress and lipstick
- Wearing nail polish for a certain duration
- Wear full make-up, outfit and take photographs
- Feminine shopping (alone or with Mistress)
- Feminine evening with Mistress (e.g. face mask, painting nails)
Enjoying Feminisation
For me, feminisation is sexually exciting, acts as a form of escapism, allows me to express myself differently and plays into the power dynamics of our D/s relationship.