Male Orgasm Control

After experimenting with male chastity devices, being locked for longer periods and enjoying the benefits of chastity, my Mistress quickly noticed my sudden urge to masturbate once I was released and the poor level of self-control I had.

Mistress decided it was time I learnt more self-control and discipline.

At the beginning of the week, Mistress decided to immediately ban all masturbation while I wasn’t locked in chastity until Wednesday. I always strive to please my Mistress and I happily agreed and promised I wouldn’t masturbate – I knew this would be challenging, by Monday evening I found myself craving to be locked back in chastity to avoid touching myself.

Occasionally I’d find myself touching my penis and wanting to masturbate, however, I always remembered exactly what Mistress told me…

“You won’t masturbate now, you want to please me, don’t you?”

This was powerful enough to prevent me from masturbating and every time the urge returned, those words were echoing in my ear. I knew if I didn’t comply, I would be punished.

There’s already a high level of power exchange within our BDSM relationship. Mistress already set rules and daily tasks, it felt only right that she would take control of my orgasms too – after all I’m owned by Mistress and my penis is her property.

Benefits Of Orgasm Control

• Pleases Mistress – it’s what she wants and expects
• Builds more self-control and increases sensitivity
• Increases testosterone levels which can have health benefits
• Enhanced pleasure with intensified orgasms when the time comes
• Helps improve productivity – save time throughout the day

With all the benefits of orgasm control it outweighs all the challenges and difficult times. Whether I am forced into chastity or denied orgasms, I understand Mistress has the best intentions for me and knows best.

Mistress’s Thoughts

I asked Mistress what she likes about controlling my orgasms, here’s what she said…

“When I’m in control you show a lot more emotions. I know when I’m in charge as you become needier, you want more attention and I feel like you need me more.”

I can’t help but agree Mistress. Having her in control of all my orgasms makes me feel a lot closer to her even if she’s miles away, it also helps me remain more submissive for longer.