At the beginning of 2020, I wrote a blog post about financial domination and thought it would be a good idea to share a few insights and an update on our current financial domination agreement 18 months on.
Most people can’t understand why any submissive would want to be dominated financially and hand over their savings. For me, it’s about giving up complete control and turns our relationship into a TPE (total power exchange) dynamic.
The Financial Arrangement
Essentially, my princess is now 100% in control of my finances. You might be asking yourself, what does this involve? Let me break it down.
Apart from a few pre-approved payments, I must ask permission to make any other purchase, no matter the cost or reasoning behind it.
My princess has full access to my bank accounts and holds my credit card. You guessed it, my princess can withdraw any money or make purchases at any time.
As time continues, I will be required to adopt all of my princesses bill payments. These bills will include everything from telephone bills to rent and monthly allowances. Once a bill has been adopted, it’s been adopted indefinitely.
Taking it a step further, my princess can also impose any fine or debt agreements. Fines and debts are usually initiated when I’ve been misbehaving. As part of our arrangement, my princess can use any method to ensure any payments are made.
How My Princess Uses Financial Domination
Here are a few examples of how financial domination works in our relationship.
Bad Behaviour – Financial domination is used as a common punishment. Being given a fine is an effective punishment as the demands can vary depending on my behaviour. Previously, I was acting like a brat for multiple days, my princess ordered me to pay a hefty fine immediately.
During Playtime – Occasionally, my princess will play with me, tease me and then demand a gift or tribute before allowing me an orgasm.
Randomly – My princess will randomly demand tributes and gifts. This might be something she has seen or wants, it can happen at any time.
Games – From time to time, we might play games that involve financial domination, such as a custom dice game we created where neither of us knows if a tribute will be required or how much, it can be fun and scary at the same time.
Special Occasions – My princess will expect generous gifts or tributes on special occasions like Christmas or her Birthday.
The Submissive Journey Continues
I hope you enjoyed reading this post and it has given you an insight into how we use financial domination within our kinky relationship. Please remember, everything we engage in is safe, consensual and is mutually agreed.
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